Friends Purging

[ravensword]

So...I hate doing this, and I hate feeling the need to do this, but recent events have forced me to lock down my twitter and my LJs, including this one, and have necessitated that I do some purging of my lists of "friends"

I will be whittling down to people I know fairly well. If I haven't spoken to you in a while, or something I will likely purge you. Anyone who wants back in can ask, and I'll consider, but I'm not going to be as open and free about stuff as I was.

I am also purging a bunch of communities as well.

Comments

[trueshellz.livejournal.com]

That sucks about the lock down, but people need to know what privacy means
x

[shannonrita.livejournal.com]

HEY!!!! Don't you ditch me!!!

[magser.livejournal.com]

Totally understand about the purging and the need to lock it down. I have done it myself.No hard feelings honey, just dont purge me from your fic journals, as I really enjoy reading your supernatural and j2 stories. Please?

[ysbail.livejournal.com]

Hi,

I guess it's been a long while since I actively commented on your posts ... sorry things have become difficult for you and you feel the need to do a cut. I guess a lot of it is my fault because I've not been keeping up with my flist as well as I should.

I would still like to be your friend but if you feel that we've drifted too far apart I understand.

Take care

Mandy

[angels3.livejournal.com]

I did this not to long ago but only for purged journals and inactive ones that never friended me back. It took about fifty.

[wandereringray.livejournal.com]

Sorry things are crappy. :( Bleh.

[elusive-life-77.livejournal.com]

That sucks that you have to lock down. Seems to be a lot of that going on lately.

I would really like to stay on your f-list if possible. I know we don't talk much but..well, we don't talk much but I'm almost always here.

Up to you of course, no hard feelings either way.

[gestaltrose.livejournal.com]

I know I was absent for about half a year... I'm back now but if you need to let me go, I understand.

[honeyjojames.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry about all the shit on Twitter yesterday. It's so horrible that it happened and so horrible that it makes you have to do things like this. *hugs tightly*

[weavingfire.livejournal.com]

Bummer.

[ryuutchi.livejournal.com]

D: I hope everything's okay over there.

[lolleeroberts.livejournal.com]

Hum. I must have missed it. Hope you'll keep me on the list. I like reading about all your travels and being one of your little peoples in the computer.

[sublimatedangel]

I'm not sure what recent events have prompted it, but I'm glad I survived the purge. Hope everything is okay and that you don't get any (more?) drama from the ones who were cut.

[lexstar29.livejournal.com]

I saw all the rubbish. I'm so sorry it's happening and quite understand if you feel the need to cut me as we don't speak that often.

On a nicer note, a postcard is on it's way to you from where I live.

Take care.

[smeared-kohl.livejournal.com]

It sucks that you have to do it, and I don't want to be dropped from your friend's list (even though I know I'm a terrible commenter.) but if you feel you have to then I will understand.

[fufaraw]

I regret the necessity of your having to do this. I haven't been very vocal anywhere lately, but we share a number of interests, and I'm always interested in your life you're willing to share here. I don't tweet or use my dormat (heh. that's dormant, I definitely don't use it enough to be a doormat) fb account, so this is the only place I keep track of you.

I'll leave you on my flist--not that I post often, but feel free to drop by. I hope things settle down for you. I'd love to be added back.

[gryphonwing.livejournal.com]

Ew. :(

I read, just suck at commenting, and I'd like to continue the reading if you don't mind. (I figure I'm ridiculously nonthreatening.)

[ldyghst.livejournal.com]

That sucks hon! I hope everything is okay! *hugs*

[kyra-ojosverdes.livejournal.com]

Sorry people behave in sucky ways. :-(

[elebridith]

*hugs and cliiiings*

[seshen.livejournal.com]

Did you get spammed too?

[twigletmoo.livejournal.com]

Oh gosh, has something else happened recently (besides the RPS thing over at phantisma)? So sorry you're having to do this. Sending you big hugs for you and evil glares to any non-friendly peeps.

[samalander-dawn.livejournal.com]

just wanted to say 'hi' & I'm really sorry to hear that there have been events, and to send you good wishes :) Keep well :)

[devon99.livejournal.com]

What's happened? Nothing good by the sound of it:( I understand the need for locking down and tightening things up, but hope I can stay, but if not, that's cool.

*hugs*

[ktrisha.livejournal.com]

Understand completely. hopefully I will remain friended. I enjoy your stories and insights. Take care.

[sgfansean.livejournal.com]

I am not on your friends list on this journal but I check it every day to see what's going on in your life. I hope that I will survive the cut on your fic journal because you know how very much that I love your fic. If you wanted to add me to this journal I would very much appreciate it. But if you don't want to then I understand. I just never got around to friending you on here for some reason. I've just always been a lurker. LOL!

I hope that you got your Birthday card that I sent to you. I'm planning on sending you a postcard as well. Things have just been a little bit crazy around here. I was just told that Christian is coming to town for a radio visit on Tuesday and I'm so excited that I'm about to bounce off the walls. That news coupled with "Supernatural" coming back on in ten minutes has left me quite giddy for sure.

*wouldn't have it any other way*

*Hugs*

[locknkey.livejournal.com]

Hey, hon! We haven't connected much online, but the fangirl meet-ups have been awesome! I have had a name change, but I understand list trimming, so whatever you're comfortable with. :)

[blackpanther07.livejournal.com]

Deffinantly understand being cut I haven't been around much because of school, but please don't cut me from your fic journal, you just added me there.

[billysgirl5.livejournal.com]

Sorry that you have to go through this again. It seems like people are getting worse and worse and have no clue what privacy means. I say: do what you have to do.

[liamar13.livejournal.com]

It totally sucks that someone has done something to make you feel like you have to do this but I totally understand.

We haven't talked in a long while but I wish you well with everything going forth.

Take care hon

[gypsy-atavari.livejournal.com]

Sorry that you have to do this. It sucks when you need to do a lock-down. But you gotta do what you gotta do.

Hope things start getting better.

May I please request not to be cut from your ficjournal? Would still love to keep up with your work. :-)

[azureavian.livejournal.com]

I'd like to stay pls. I know I don't comment too much, but I do read.

[yanzadracan.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Just when I think people get any more assinine, they have to go and prove me wrong. It's a shame you've had to take such drastic measures.

[zeerine.livejournal.com]

*hugz* I hope this decision works out for you, so shitty that you have to do it. I don't comment much so I understand if you cut me from this flist but would appreciate it if I could stay on your fic journals/comms as I like your creative output.

[ulysses3-de.livejournal.com]

Damn there I leave for three weeks of vacation and one of my friends has to go offline and now you're having lj problems too. I know I haven't commented in a long time but I hope you won't purge me from your flist. I've always enjoyed your posts and thoughts.
Hope to see you around.

[shadowandstar.livejournal.com]

I'm having to do something similar on my journal for the same reasons. It's awful to feel that one's personal, sacred space is being violated.

I wish you all the best.

[charlies_dragon]

*sneaks out from the depths of lurkdom*

I hope (for my sake) that you've already done the cut & I'm still friended, but if not and you're still thinking of people to let go, then please don't lose me. Please??? *makes pathetic begging noises and bribes you with the thought of me with you for ConCon2*

[eglafinwen.livejournal.com]

Hi

I just found you from comment_fic livejournal and fell in love with your vampireNate/Eliot fics, I would love to read your fics in your livejournal site so I will friend you and hope you allow me to come check your fics. ^^